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Wednesday, March 27, 2013

Healthy Living

(3-27-2013)

Where do I even begin with this post? Hmm...how about the beginning. For starters, I used to be very skeptical (and probably judgmental) about those who lived "all-natural" lifestyles. What's all the fuss?, I would wonder to myself. In addition, I also felt "looked down upon" by people who practiced this kind of lifestyle because often, though their intentions were good, the delivery came across as brash or condescending. It took some time, but with the help of a good friend of mine, we are slowly making the appropriate changes in our household as well.

Most of you already know that in January 2011, I had a miscarriage about 10 weeks into my second pregnancy. While the miscarriage itself was devastating enough, the pain didn't stop there. Since then, I have battled many health issues (I will spare you all the details) and despite seeing various doctors, there hasn't been a true diagnosis for all my ailments. On top of that, there has been the unexplained infertility issues that have plagued us since the loss of Baby #2.

I should pause right here to add that after the miscarriage, my eating habitats became atrocious. I didn't seem to care what or how much I ate. I was addicted to sugar and caffeine and could care less about fruits or veggies. I liked them, but they weren't a priority. Also, pasta was a staple in our meal plans while meat took a backseat. 

Jump ahead to December 2012. For whatever reason, this was probably my most painful month on record. I was dealing with tendinitis and swelling in my lower left leg and excruciating pain along with numbness in my left shoulder/shoulder blade. I was tired of going to the doctor because usually I would end up in physical therapy, which would bring some relief, only to have the pain return after therapy ended.

Finally, in January (2013), while feeling defeated mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually, I was talking to a dear friend of mine about all my issues, including the infertility. She mentioned that while at a class called Birth Circle, she heard a story about a girl who couldn't get pregnant and was told to go on a special diet for awhile. Not long after being on the diet, she became pregnant. Again, I was still skeptical, but my friend gently said, "What do you have to lose?"

While I never researched the specific diet, at the beginning of January, I eliminated soda completely out of my diet, limited myself to 1 cup of coffee a day (and switched to an organic creamer), cut way back on my sugar intake, and juice fresh fruits and veggies regularly. I also switched to a daily diet that includes mostly fruits, veggies, and meat with little carbs (pastas, breads, etc.) In addition, I have eliminated most processed foods, limited eating out, drink water like it's going out of style, and try to buy organic or whole foods, as our budget allows. (I've also begun using homemade cleaning products as well!)

Amazingly, since the beginning of January, I've lost around 6lbs, all while not working out very much. I decided that I was going to do some light weight-lifting at home to try to nurse my leg back to normal strength and build up tone in the rest of my body so I could hit the ground running (literally) come spring time.

The change I have felt has been amazing. I have almost no pain (except now I have pain from the surgery), more energy, and feel better than I have in a long time. Interestingly enough, after having my surgery, I lapsed a little in these practices and instantly began feeling cruddy again, so back to healthy eating I go!

I do want to point out that I do still enjoy treats and junk food from time to time, but my focus has completely changed. I have been doing research about what goes into our foods and am completely appalled by what I am finding. I want to continue taking steps toward living a more natural and wholistic lifestyle because I think it is what is best for me and my family. It may or may not "cure" the infertility, but I have been pleased with the results so far and look forward to learning about more natural ways to care for my family. 

So, I want to close this post by saying that I am thankful for my dear friend, Sheri, for lovingly nudging me in the right direction and for constantly being the source of answers for all my questions.


Monday, March 25, 2013

Ss is for Snowman!

Practicing the Letter "S"
 
Writing the word "snowman"
 
Practicing Patterns
 
More Patterns
 
Snowman Puzzle
 
Color Matching
 
Gluing
 
Fun with Paint
(3-25-2013)

Today Maddie and I wrapped up our study of "Ss is for Snowman!" Somehow it seemed fitting that we would get another snow storm, despite the fact that it is the end of March and technically Spring.

Maddie just loves school time and she especially loves "art day." Art day is the last day we spend on said-letter and she gets to bust out the glue sticks, crayons, and/or paint. (We do have fun with art supplies on other days, FYI!) 

I am so thankful that Maddie loves school time and that she is excelling in it. I know I have said it before, but I am also thankful for each and every day I get to spend with her and watch her grow.

Monday, March 4, 2013

Maddie's First Haircut!


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(During Pics)


 


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(After pics)


Photos courtesy of Matt
(3-4-2013)

Some people find it hard to believe that Maddie has never had a haircut, but it's true! Today was the first time...ever! Her hair was getting so long that was becoming harder and harder to keep neat looking. I would brush it, put a hair bow in it, and then once we would get in the car and arrive at our destination, it would look like she had just climbed out of bed! We finally decided with spring right around the corner, now would be a good time.
It was sad for Mommy and Daddy and Maddie was a little scared starting off. As Billie Jo, the hairstylist, continued her work, Maddie warmed up to her and the idea of getting her haircut. By the end, she was loving it! Billie Jo even let Maddie hold a big round brush used for brushing hair off her clients. Maddie thought that was pretty neat.
 
 When she was done getting her hair cut, she got a card that said "First Haircut" and Billie Jo put some clippings of her hair in it and gave it to us. Maddie also got to pick a sticker out. I am so thankful for Billie Jo (Great Clips at Orchard Crossing) and the wonderful job she did working with Maddie and the style she gave her!

Afterward, we went next door to Target and she got to pick out her new swimsuit...thus explaining the pics of her wearing her swimsuit :)

Friday, March 1, 2013

Little Miss Independent




(3-1-2013)

After being cooped up most of the week, we decided to go the mall and walk around for a bit. While we were there, we stopped by the food court to grab some lunch. 

Maddie and I ate at Chick-fil-A, while Daddy had Subway. (As a side note, I have to say that I love Chick-fil-A for several reasons: the food, the service, their beliefs, and the fact that their kids meals come with a small book instead of a cheap toy.)

Anyway, as we went to find a seat, Maddie asked if she could sit at the "apple" and of course, we said yes. Watching her sit there by herself reminded me that she isn't the little toddler who needs her mommy for EVERYTHING anymore. She is a preschooler who is constantly saying, "I can do it by myself!" Likewise, she loves walking by herself in the store instead of holding our hands.

I really miss her needing me so much but I'm also proud of her for the "big" girl she is becoming. I'm so thankful for every day that God blesses me by allowing me to stay home and watch her grow up before my eyes.